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How To Be Assertive With Your Future Mother-in-Law |
The way you interact with your future mother-in-law now will set a precedent for how she will treat you after you are married, so it’s important that you start behaving as an adult on an equal level to her. If she says or does something that gets on your nerves, don’t get your hoop slip in a wad. Just talk to her in a calm and mature manner. What you say is important, but how you say it is even more important. Treat your mother-in-law the same way you’d want your fiancé to treat your mom. You can be firm if necessary, but remember to be tactful so you can make progress toward gaining your future husband’s loyalty and respect.
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My fiancé wanted to dance at our wedding. She picked out a song, and I thought that was it. We’d dance. Big deal. But then I saw how much it meant to Jill – she told me that she’d always dreamed of having a perfect wedding. To me, it didn’t matter, but to make her happy, I agreed to take lessons for our first dance. We looked for an instructor but everyone we saw charged hundreds of dollars for lessons. Between that, driving back and forth to the dance studio, and trying to find the time, we decided not to do it. Jill seemed upset but was busy with the rest of the wedding details.
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